Everything you might ask

Open with Love is a UK service for animated digital wedding invitations. You choose a design, add your wedding details and send a private link to your guests. They watch the invitation open on their phone, then RSVP and choose their meals, and you see every reply in your own dashboard.

A one-off £59 for any number of guests. That includes a day and an evening invitation, online RSVPs with meal choices, a guest list that ticks off replies, your private dashboard and a spreadsheet download. There's no subscription and no per-guest fee.

Yes. You can create your invitations and preview them for free. You only pay when you're ready to send them, and guests can only reply once you've gone live.

Open with Love is made in the UK by Aposlo Studios, a small web design studio. It started with our own wedding invitations.

There are 25 designs, from romantic and garden styles to glamorous, modern, whimsical and beach. Every design has its own opening animation, such as a lifting lace veil, a ring box or chapel bells, and comes in a day and an evening version.

Yes. You can pick one design for your day invitation and a different one for your evening invitation, or use the same design for both.

Some designs, like Garden Envelope, Something Blue and Golden Locket, can show your photo. Others use your initials or an illustration. If you'd like your photo on any design, tell us your theme and we'll make a tailored version.

Yes, if you'd like. Choose from five classical pieces, including Pachelbel's Canon in D and Bach's Prelude in C, or no music at all. Guests can turn it off with one tap.

Yes. Your invitation is a live web page, so any change you make in your dashboard, like a new time or a menu update, shows straight away for every guest.

Yes. Tell us your theme, colours and venue through our custom design form and we'll quote for a tailored (£129) or bespoke (from £249) invitation, including your own opening animation.

No. Guests just tap the link. The invitation opens in their phone's web browser and the reply card takes under a minute.

Yes. One person can reply for everyone in their household, including children, and choose a meal for each person.

Day guests choose a starter, main and dessert from your menu for each person, with separate children's options if you have them. Your dashboard adds up the totals for each dish, ready for your venue.

Yes. Each reply has space for dietary requirements and allergies, and they're listed together in your dashboard.

Add your guest list in your dashboard. As each guest replies with their name, they're ticked off automatically, so you can filter to see exactly who still needs a nudge.

Copy your link and send it by WhatsApp, text, email or social media. Your dashboard has a WhatsApp share button, and the shared link shows a preview with your names and date.

Only the two of you. Each couple has a private dashboard, and replies are never shown to other guests or other couples.

Guest replies and guest lists are deleted automatically six months after your wedding.

By card through Stripe, a secure payment provider. We never see your card details.

If you haven't sent your links yet, tell us within 14 days of paying and we'll refund you in full.